Hey Alexa , play " traitorous " by Rihanna .

Have you ever wondered what is going through a person’s mind after they hooked up with somebody’s girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse? To be honest, I’m morbidly curious.

I want to hear about your messy entanglements and naughty secret love affairs with people who weren’t necessarily single. I’m talking accidental love affairs, or moments where their other relationships — engagement or wedding rings on the finger and all — didn’t stop you in the slightest.

Maybe you hooked up with somebody at a party, and when their girlfriend showed up, you decided to be upfront and confess to her what happened, and you both shared a cocktail, bonding over the betrayal, and kicked the cheater to the curb. It was an honest mistake.

Perhaps you fell deeply in love with a married man after you met abroad, and you kept the relationship going for two years because he told you that he was in the process of divorcing his wife (deep down you knew he was lying), and you didn’t finally break it off until it was too late and you were pregnant with his child.

Or maybe it’s part of your profession. You’re a sex worker, and more often than not, your clients are married men and/or women. Listen, it’s not your business whether or not they’re being faithful to their partners and their families, you have your own business to run.

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Hey Alexa, play “Unfaithful” by Rihanna.

A person with long hair and a perplexed expression covers their mouth while seated, wearing a sleeveless, black patterned dress

A shirtless man leans over a woman on a bed in an intimate setting, creating a dramatic and tense atmosphere

People socializing at a bar; a man in a blue shirt and tie holds a drink while a woman in a blouse stands nearby