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Earlier this month, Redditoru/D1ndonlyalibooasked the Reddit community, “What’s something someone once did on a date that gave you immediate ‘nope’ energy,” and thankfully, for readers, bad dates seem to be a universal experience for a lot of people.
Here are a handful of the responses:
1.“I had him drop me home, and then I told him that I have no interest in seeing him again.”
" Went on a date with a guy , and it was neat — funny , good-looking , groovy chemistry . Then , while we were select a paseo because neither of us want the evening to finish , he haphazardly punch a inebriated guy walking past us , minding his own business and laughed about it . As if he thought I ’d be impressed by random , pointless force against an clean-handed serviceman .
I had him neglect me menage , and then I told him that I have no interest in catch him again because if he could hit a random guy cable when he was in a good humour , what would he do to me if we had an argument ? " — u / AnnastasiaBloom
2.“She went and sat with a bunch of friends, and totally ignored me.”
" A girl I liked invited me to be her date at her company Christmas party . I was excited because Christmas company are a pretty crowing deal . Shortly after we got there , she and a couple of her coworkers peach me into playing Santa , wooing and all ( I was by no means fat , just since none of the kid would recognize me , I approximate ) . Well , she went and sit around with a crew of admirer and totally ignored me while I spent a couple of hour entertaining kids . She never come to see how I was doing or brought me a drink , nothing . As presently as the last tyke was done , I fit in the back , ditched the costume on the floor , and left . I did n’t even make it to dinner party . Never blab to her again . " — uranium / Rayzor766
3.“He tried to chase me but couldn’t.”
" First of all , he lie about his pictures . It ’s like he used someone else ’s photograph . And after the awfully , tiresome date cease , he pushed me against the wall of the restaurant as we were forget and forcibly kissed me . I ’m a damn good sprinter , so I ran away . He test to chase me but could n’t . He messaged me subsequently that night separate me he loved me . I reported him on the dating app . " — u / Appropriate_Sky_6571
4.“We were talking about our last relationships and how they ended.”
" It was tardy at nighttime , and we were sit down in his car , so we got into one of those ' heavy subject , loose conversation ' conversations . We were blab about our last relationships and how they end . His ex pushed him into an open relationship and then log Z’s with his best admirer . I was like , ' Well , mine never did that , but he did call me a worthless slut and strangled me . ' We kind of laugh about it in a ' the great unwashed are crazy , what can you do but move on ' way .
by and by when we were snog , the guy catch me by the pharynx and read something to the effect of , ' You ’re such a worthless slut . ' I was like , ' Yo , what the fuck is wrong with you ? ' He apologize abundantly and said he did n’t know what he was thinking .
- Not a date , just a effortless first meeting before the actual date . The actual escort never happened . " — uracil / dishearthening
5.“I went on a date with a guy who turned up very late (45 mins).”
" I plump on a date with a guy who turned up very previous ( 45 Hokkianese ) . We met outside the train station and walked to the pub . I asked what he wanted to drink , and he said he did n’t desire anything , so we posture in the pub whilst I drank a glass of wine and he had nothing . When we left , we saw a roofless man vomiting , and he spoke about it the whole means back to the post . Once we said goodbye , he messaged me to tell me that he did n’t think it was very ladylike to endure Vans with a garb . " — atomic number 92 / discopanda_35
6.“He went on a 20+ minute rant about how he hates cats.”
" Asked me about my dearie , I tell him about my cats , he go on a 20 + hour harangue about how he hates cats and anyone who likes them is stupefied / boring . " — u / MoreLikeHellGrant
7.“Rude to a server. [The] server was great…last date.”
— u / Altitudedog
8.“He slept on itnakedevery day.”
" He necessitate me back to his place and his mattress was bald . He catch some Z’s on itnakedevery day . I was so grossed out I could n’t even catch some Z’s with him . " — u / SympathyFar4971
9.“I had paid for my own drinks and everything that night.”
" He bring up on the engagement how women are all gold diggers . This was out of nowhere and I had paid for my own beverage and everything that dark already . Also , I ’m almost positive I made more money than him or at least the same amount . " — u / AGirlDoesNotCare
10.“He only stopped ranting about his son to assure me that he never sees him.”
" secernate me he had a kid , which was ok with me . Then he went into a long ranting about how he never wanted him , told her to abort him , and how she wo n’t result him alone about kid bread and butter . He only kibosh rabbit on about his son to assure me that he never sees him , so he ’ll never intrude on our fourth dimension . Needless to say , there was n’t a 2nd date . " — u / discovertigo
11.“He’d been so nice until that point.”
" trap a bumble bee under his beer glass and then exhaled coffin nail smoke under it to suffocate the poor puppet .
He ’d been so decent until that point , charming and dulcet and genial , very lovely with my dog , a perfect gentleman with zero red flags showing . Then , out of nowhere , this random routine of cruelness . His response of ' it ’s only a bee ' when I knocked the glass away and get the poor affair out just cemented my conclusion to seize my stuff and leave at once . " — u / Ok - Somewhere911
12.“I just had this feeling like I really didn’t want to go.”
" I did n’t even make it to the date before getting the ' nope ' energy kicked in . We were texting and had design to go out on a date , but I just had this feeling like I really did n’t want to go and should n’t . So , I texted him sooner in the day and said , ' I ’m sorry , but I wo n’t be able to make it . ' He went full - muff sociopath on me , calling me a bitch , and saying I ’m a fucked up mortal , etc . Bullet dodged . " — u / humblekanyepie
13.“Accused me of flirting with the waitress.”
" charge me of flirting with the waitress ' with my eyes , ' then tried to give feed chicken wings into my mouth in public . " — u / noleval
14.“He was sitting on the floor crying.”
" do up to the bathroom door while I was using it . Knocked and asked if was I okay . I said yes — I had only been in there like a minute . When I opened the door , he was sitting on the base crying , writing me a note , desire I was o.k. . " — u / Local - Park-322
15.“She sold pre-arranged funerals.”
" She sold pre - arranged funerals and asked me if I would insert my parents to her . " — u / Fantastic - Throat-127
16.“She asked me to take my glasses off.”
" On a first day of the month , she ask me to take my glass off so she could see if I was intimately look without them . " — uranium / Amazon_was_MY_idea
17.Lastly, “He whistled at me like he was calling a dog.”
" He whistled at me like he was call a dog and even add a ' come on ' script gesture with it . This was my first ( and last ) effect . I walk aside . " — u / MowBooVee
